Specialist coaching for neurodivergent children and young people — and the parents who want to support them better. Built around how your brain actually works.
Coaching runs in parallel — one track for parents, one for the young person — because the whole family is part of the picture.
You've read the books, tried the strategies, and advocated until you were hoarse. You love your child and you're exhausted. This track is for you too — not just a workshop in how to manage them, but genuine support for the person carrying most of the weight.
Most systems — school timetables, revision guides, homework strategies — were designed for a different kind of brain. If yours doesn't work that way, those things will always feel like wearing someone else's shoes. We build something that actually fits.
Structured enough to build real momentum. Flexible enough to fit your life. Both tracks run in parallel, with two integration sessions where parent and young person come together.
Understand, connect, and assess. We map your child's unique profile — strengths first — and build the baseline for everything that follows.
Skills, habits, and strategies. The practical work — sleep, movement, nutrition, focus, emotional regulation — all built around your child's actual wiring.
Consolidate, review, and plan ahead. We build independence — the goal is that your child (and you) leave with the tools to keep going long after the programme ends.
I'm Ian Neale — a Health and Wellbeing Coach currently completing a Practitioner I Certificate in Health and Wellbeing Coaching through Bluecrest Wellness, aligned with NHS England's Tier 1 framework. My specialist focus is neurodivergent children, young people, and the families supporting them.
I've spent years working in health and education settings — and what I kept seeing was families doing everything right, but working from a map that wasn't drawn for their child. Standard advice, standard systems, standard expectations. For neurodivergent brains, that gap is exhausting.
"The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small, manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one." — Mark Twain
My approach is grounded in evidence, led by your strengths, and focused entirely on what's practical for your real life. I work with parents and young people together, because the most powerful change happens when the whole family understands what's going on.
"For the first time, my son has a morning routine that actually works. Not because we forced it — because Ian helped us build one around how his brain actually operates. The difference at school has been remarkable."
"I came in sceptical — I'd tried every system going. Ian was the first person who didn't treat me like a problem to fix. The coaching gave me tools I actually wanted to use, not ones I had to force myself to remember."
"The parent sessions were as valuable as the ones for my daughter. I finally understood why I was reacting the way I was — and how to change it. Ian doesn't just coach your child. He coaches your whole family."
Book a free 20-minute discovery call below, or send a message and Ian will be in touch within 24 hours.
ian@iannealecoaching.co.uk · iannealecoaching.co.uk
No pressure, no pitch. Just a conversation to see whether coaching might be the right fit for your family. Pick a time that suits you.
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